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Old 11-04-2009, 06:07 AM   #91
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Originally Posted by LIFTEDBUICK View Post
I don't care what anyone thinks....but this whole having a kid when your younger then 20 isn't ok at all. Shit what can you say once you already have the kid but think of the positives. We only live one life why go around holding yourself back cuz you couldn't use protection properly...now your in your teen's and early 20's struggling going to school and working to provide for you and your child. I love having no kids and I know when I do have one I will be satisfied that I had my fun and now it's time to settle down.
it really depends on the person...not all teen moms are struggling & having a hard time raising their kid..yeah most of them now a days arent with the dad but only a hand full are actually doing a good job..

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Old 11-04-2009, 06:12 AM   #92
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Originally Posted by RRooxxyy View Post
it really depends on the person...not all teen moms are struggling & having a hard time raising their kid..yeah most of them now a days arent with the dad but only a hand full are actually doing a good job..

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There are always exceptions I know that but there are too many examples of young mothers/parents struggling.
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Old 11-04-2009, 03:21 PM   #93
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I find it funny that you say that most cases aren't like this but in this forum alone so many young mothers can prove that theory wrong. Age doesn't define how good of a mother you are...

Its your decision to have kids whenever you think you're ready, but dont look down upon young mothers as being incapable of raising their own kids
I see what you are saying and i can agree on some of your points.

I wont assume that all "young/teen" mothers are the same but for the most part yes, honestly how much can a teen mom do from ages 15-18 nothing much kids at that age are barely starting to go out "movies, park" i dunno kid things but when they hit that age where they can actually go out and do things that an adult can do thats when they i guess you can say "forget" about the child and do their own thing. Why does a girl/teen become pregnant at such a young age? i can say many reason as of why but like a said at the beginning of my thread "no disrespect to the ladies that have had kids at such a young age."

I have a lot of RESPECT for those moms who had a kid at a young age and focused on the kid i really do but, those who had a kid just because they want to become pregnant at a young age and don't give a damn about the kid later as they grow that there i don't have any kind of RESPECT!

im not trying to put any one or any girl down if you had a kid at a young age and because of that you became a better person than i give you props for that and i know there's a lot out there but for the most part its not like that sad to say.
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Old 11-04-2009, 03:33 PM   #94
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my sister is 29 and still has no damn kids. im like wtf is the hold up seriously.
in my opinion, unless ur saving up a shit load of money for when you have a baby then your gonna have ur ups n downs just like (for example) i did when i got pregnant at 18.
and no matter how many damn kids you have baby sat before... its still going to be sooo diff when u have ur own.
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Old 11-04-2009, 04:14 PM   #95
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I do give young moms props especially if they finished school and got a job. Not like other young moms that had a kid and had their parents take care of them and still went off and have more kids.

But I myself am only 25 and pregnant with my first baby, I'm glad I waited. I got all my partying and craziness out of my system. I also had my dad on me all the time, "mija cuando me vas a dar nietos?" ...lol. I guess since I am his first born & daddy's girl he really wanted to see grandkids. But even he tells me now that he is glad I waited until my husband & I had all our stuff together.
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Originally Posted by MIZ.DIABLA View Post
my sister is 29 and still has no damn kids. im like wtf is the hold up seriously.
in my opinion, unless ur saving up a shit load of money for when you have a baby then your gonna have ur ups n downs just like (for example) i did when i got pregnant at 18.
and no matter how many damn kids you have baby sat before... its still going to be sooo diff when u have ur own.
does she go to dmx?
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