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my girl has a cousin who's baby is more like her little brother.
Her mother takes more care of the kid, and he listens to the grandmother more than the mother..its sad really.
The mother can't take him anywhere because she can't handle him..
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im not making any assumptions. like i said i know a few that have "matured" with a child but most don't.
Your mom had you at age 28 and your way of thinking is different. Cus what i have read from you, you seem very smart!
Kids that are raised by "young" parents seem to think differently.
Explain yourself.
Originally Posted by Yessy
on another note nobody is ever ready to have a child no matter what age, some 18 year old parents provide better for their kids thant some 28 year olds.
Exactly!
Originally Posted by brooklyn bitch
not tru when your ready to have one you'll see it was worth the wait you have till 35 ...shitt i've known females who waited till they're in there forties j-lo had twins in her 30s.
What???
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IMO, you can try to prepare yourself for a child but in the end, all of the preparing goes down the drain. You cant predict how your kid will be, it might be a baby who needs medical attention or whatever else it might be. No one can ever be prepared. Its just life.
IMO, you can try to prepare yourself for a child but in the end, all of the preparing goes down the drain. You cant predict how your kid will be, it might be a baby who needs medical attention or whatever else it might be. No one can ever be prepared. Its just life.
so people should just fuck and not have the responsibility to have a job, a home, or any money, no father because "its all just going to go down the drain"?
so making sure you have the money to provide doesnt matter?
Theirs a certain kind of fun. If you leave your house say a "night with the girls" but still have your child in mind call the babysitter to check on him then thats cool. Thats what i call a mature "mom/mother".
But the girls i've seen usually don't give a damn they get drunk do drugs come home the next day like if they were single w/no responsibilities. Some even come home with "guys".
But you are right "teen" moms/dads some times can be a better parent then a 28yr or older parent. But its more likely the opposite.
sounds like someone i know ...she has more time to herself than her kids works at a bar all nite ,sleep all day and her kids? w/there abuelos ...bitch moved out to a nice pretty home thru section 8 which she has no excuse to take her kids to their new home and she has it for her n her fuckin friends like a party house .
the bitch don't deserve that home ,i told her ''lets see how long you'll last w/it cuz when section 8 start investigating and see the real thing you might get booted.''
A mind of a 28yr old is very different compared to a 18yr old or younger. Your mom had lived things that a lot of 18yr old haven't by that being said you were raised in a different environment/mentality. You did not see a lot of things that young parents go thru or do. If you could put two kids in a room 4yr olds one kid comes from a young parent and the other comes from a well stabled parent you will see the differences.
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so people should just fuck and not have the responsibility to have a job, a home, or any money, no father because "its all just going to go down the drain"?
so making sure you have the money to provide doesnt matter?
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